"Lovers are expected to 'get' one another by instinct and take a speedy comprehension to be a proof of the sincerity of their love... which leads lovers to a bias against ever explaining themselves and their desires with appropriate patience and thoroughness."
"Love is understood to be an enthusiasm rather than what it really is: a skill that needs to be learned."
Inspiration! Get better at love
The folks at School of Life have nailed it again! Here's an awesome video about why work is easier than love, and why we should think about love in terms of a skill set to be developed.