Surprise! Seth Godin said something inspiring! Also, this one is just kind of adorable and makes me think of a kids book with a slug that likes to hug. (Note: if you search "slug that likes to hug" the google images will bring you some adorable gifts. Go try!)
"When push comes to hug.
This is a much more stable response than pushing coming to shoving, because shoving often leads to something unsustainable.
Hugging is a surprising and difficult response to pushing, but it changes the trajectory, doesn't it?"